| Event | Frequency | Type of Event | Location | Host | Cover or fee | Restrictions | Time | Activities |
| MONDAYS | ||||||||
| Ceremony | every Monday | fetish event | Boston, MA | An Tua Nua | $5, 21+ $6, 18+ |
18+ | 9pm- | A,D,DG,F,M |
| TUESDAYS | ||||||||
| Haven | every Tuesday | fetish event | Northhampton, MA | Diva's Nightclub | $5, 21+ $7, 18+ |
18+ | 9pm-2am | A,D,F,M |
| WEDNESDAYS | ||||||||
| Club Hell | every Wednesday | fetish event | Providence, RI | Club Hell | ? | ?18+ | 9pm-1am | A,B,D,DC,DG,F,M,S&M |
| Crypt at Twitch | 1st and 3rd Wednesday | fetish event | Boston, MA | Ramrod | ? | ?21+ | 10pm-2am | A,B,D,DC,F,M,P |
| NEDS Bondage Club | 1st Wednesday | educational event | Chelmsford, MA | Questioner | no | 18+, by approval | 7:30pm-9:30pm | B,F,N,W |
| Toast Lounge | every Wednesday | fetish event | Somerville, MA | Toast Lounge | $5 | 18+ | 9pm-1am | A,B,D,F,M |
| Rope Practice Group | 4th Wednesday | educational event | MA | BostonRope | no | by approval | 7pm-10pm | B |
| THURSDAYS | ||||||||
| Resurrection | 1st and 3rd Thursday | fetish event | Manchester, NH | The Breezeway Pub | $5 | 21+ | 8pm- | A,D,DC,F,M |
| Society of Spankers | 2nd and 4th Thursday | spanking party | NYC | Paddles | $20 | ?18+ | 8pm-1am | S&M (spanking only) |
| Domina | every Thursday | fetish event | Somerville, MA | Club Choices | $5 | 21+ | 9pm-1am | A.B,D,DC,F,M,P,S&M |
| FRIDAYS | ||||||||
| Plague | every Friday | fetish event | Portland, ME | The Asylum | $4 | 21+ | 9pm-1am | A,D,DC,F,M |
| Hathor's Garden | every Friday | fetish event | Providence, RI | Club Gallery | $5 | 18+ | 9pm-2am | A,B,D,DG,DC,DM,F,M,S&M |
| Paddles | every Friday | bdsm club | NYC | Paddles | ? | ?18+ | 10pm-4am | B,DG,F,S&M |
| The Society Play Party | every Friday | play party | Hartford, CT | The Society | $10 members $15 guests |
21+, members only | 9pm-1am | B,DG,F,N,S&M,X |
| Fetish Friday | 1st Friday | fetish event | Lowell, MA | Down the Street Cafe | $10 | 18+ | 9pm-1am | A,B,D,DG,DC,DM,E,F,M,S&M |
| Halos N' Horns | 2nd Friday | fetish event | Lowell, MA | Down the Street Cafe | $10 | 18+ | 9pm-1am | A,B,D,DG,DC,DM,E,F,M,S&M |
| Just Like Heaven | 3rd Friday | fetish event | Lowell, MA | Down the Street Cafe | $10 | 18+ | 9pm-1am | A,B,D,DG,DC,DM,E,F,M,S&M |
| Xmortis | 2nd Friday | fetish event | Cambridge, MA | TT The Bears | $10 | 18+ | 9pm- | A,B,D,DG,DC,DM,E,F,M, |
| Club Paraphilia | 1st and 2nd Friday | bdsm club | Providence, RI | Dichotomy Social Clubs | $20 single women $40 single men $50 couples |
members only | 8:15pm-2am | B,DC,DG,F,M,N,S&M,X |
| Choice Nightclub | 3rd or 4th Friday | adult lifestyle club | Providence, RI | Dichotomy Social Clubs | free, single women $40 couples $75 single men |
members only | 8:15pm-2am | A,B,D,DC,DG,F,M,N,S&M,X |
| APEX Fandango | 2nd Friday | fetish event | Albany, NY | APEX | free, members $5, guests |
members only | 7pm-11pm | B,D,F,M,S&M |
| WMPE Play Party | 3rd Friday | play party | Hartford, CT | WMPE | $10, members $15, guests |
21+, members only | 8pm-1am | B,DG,F,N,S&M,X |
| NEDS class | varies | educational event | Waltham, MA | NEDS | $10 members $15 non-members |
18+ | 7:30pm-9:30pm | F,W |
| Exploratorium | 2nd Friday | educational event | Hartford, CT | The Society | $10 members $15 guests |
21+, members only | 8pm-1am | B,DG,F,N,S&M,X |
| New York Bondage Club | every Friday | play party | Chelsea, NYC | New York Bondage Club | ? | 18+, members only men only |
9pm- | B,DC,DG,N,S&M,X |
| SATURDAYS | ||||||||
| OTK Spanking Party | 1st Saturday | spanking party | NYC | Paddles | $35 men $6 women |
18+ | 7pm-10pm | F,S&M (spanking only) |
| Paddles | every Saturday | bdsm club | NYC | Paddles | ? | ?18+ | 10pm-4am | B,DG,F,S&M |
| The Society Play Party | every Saturday | play party | Hartford, CT | The Society | $10 members $15 guests |
21+, members only | 9pm-2am | B,DG,F,N,S&M,X |
| Choice Nightclub | every Saturday | adult lifestyle club | Providence, RI | Dichotomy Social Clubs | $25, single women $60 couples $100 single men |
members only | 8:15pm-2am | A,B,D,DC,DG,F,M,N,S&M,X |
| Service Workshop | 3rd Saturday | educational event | Hartford, CT | The Society | ? | members only | 7pm-8:30pm | F |
| Submissive Forum | 4th Saturday | educational event | Hartford, CT | The Society | $10, members $15, guests |
members only | 7pm-8:30pm | F |
| RKS Play Party | 2nd and 4th Saturday | play party | Rochester, NY | RKS | $20, guests | members only | 8pm-2am | B,DG,F,N,S&M |
| UKS Leatherstocking Party | 2nd Saturday | play party | Utica, NY | UKS | ? | 21+, members only | ? | B,DG,F,N,S&M |
| KFE Play Party | 3rd Saturday | play party | Trenton, NJ | KFE | $15 | members only | 8pm- | B,DG,F,N,S&M,X |
| APEX Play Party | 3rd Saturday | play party | Albany, NY | APEX | free | members only | ? | B,DG,F,N,S&M,X |
| Masquerade | 3rd Saturday | fetish event | Seacoast, NH | D/s-NH | $5 | 21+, rsvp required | 8pm-midnight | A,B,D,F,M,S&M |
| Sin-O-Matic | 3rd Saturday | fetish event | Boston, MA | Machine | $7, 10-10:30 $10, 10:30-close |
21+ | 10pm-close | A,D,DC,E,M,P |
| SUNDAYS | ||||||||
| Byte | varies | fetish event | NYC | The Delancy | $5, fetish dress $10, all black $15, all else |
21+ | 9pm- | A,B,D,DG,F,M,S&M |
| DAILY | ||||||||
| Pandora's Box | daily | house of domination | Chelsea, NYC | $$$ | 21+ by appointment | 10am-3am | B, DG, F, N, S&M | |
| The Nutcracker Suite | daily | house of domination | NYC | $185/hr | 21+ by appointment | 10am-midnight | B, DG, F, N, S&M | |
| Ball and Chains | daily | house of domination | NYC | $$$ | 18+ by appointment | ? | B, DG, F, N, S&M | |
| Rapture | daily | house of domination | NYC | $$$ | 21+ by appointment | 11am-2am | B, DG, F, N, S&M | |
| The Fetish Fortress | daily | house of domination | Chinatown, NYC | $200/hr | 21+ by appointment | ? | B, DG, F, N, S&M | |
| The Lair | daily | house of domination | NYC | $$$ | 21+ by appointment | 10am-3am | B, DG, F, N, S&M | |
| The Hidden Chamber | daily | house of domination | Chelsea, NYC | $$$ | 21+ by appointment | ? | B, DG, F, N, S&M | |
| Dungeons of Mistress Elizabeth | except Sunday | house of domination | NYC | $200/hr | 21+ by appointment | 11am-11pm | B, DG, F, N, S&M | |
| Ramrod | daily | leather bar | Boston, MA | Ramrod | no | 21+ | Noon- | A, B, DC, F, P |
| La Domaine Esemar | daily | bed and breakfast / S&M training facility |
Berkshires | La Domaine Esemar | $$$ | by appointment | 11am-9pm or overnight |
A,B,DG,F,N,S&M,X |
"members only" usually means members and their guests
This list was compiled in May 2007, please check links before attending an event.
| A | alcohol permitted |
| B | bondage allowed |
| D | dancing |
| DG | dungeon |
| DC | dress code |
| DM | dungeon mistress |
| E | entertainment |
| F | fetish attire permitted |
| H | hiking trails |
| M | music |
| N | nudity permitted |
| P | pool tables |
| S&M | some BDSM activities permitted |
| S | smoking permitted |
| W | hands-on workshop |
| X | some sexual activities permitted |